By Marjorie A. Gordon-DeLee, MA (Revised January 15, 2019 at 9:23 am)
Women, it is our time now more than ever before. With all of the sexual harassment that women endure; rape, domestic violence (verbal and physical abuse), bullying, humiliation, demeaning tactics from men and incest; it ends now. We must not permit the STDs to enter our bodies due to being lured in by some man who is not worthy of being in our lives because he does not even value his own life.
If you are living with a man or in a relationship with a man who is abusive to you (verbally or physically) get out of the relationship now before it is too late. Your life have value and you must protect yourself at all cost. Remember there is help out there for you being in an abusive relationship. The domestic violence hotline number is 800-799-7233.
We, as women, must stop giving in to this man who see us as only a piece of meat. We must make him work to be a part of our life. If he is disrespectful to you in any way shape or form, do not waste your time with him. If he valued himself, he would put more value into the type of language and treatment that he gives to you.
His presentation must be on point when he approaches you, striking up a conversation. Any man that approaches you must look like a real man and not one who still remains in his boyish mindset. Men of substance who value himself should not be approaching a woman with saggy pants, tee-shirt or wife beater shirts on, or not demonstrating proper hygiene. If he put the time and effort into valuing himself, he will do the same in valuing the woman that he would like to be a part of his life.
There is no such thing as the 90-day rule for women when dating a man before you have sex with them. Let the man know that he will need to work for your affection in being the type of man who is worthy of becoming a part of your life. Let this man know anytime that you spend with him is for the purpose of a long-lasting relationship that will move into matrimony.
Do not give these men what they want until they have put a ring on it and is married to you. Not until they have proven to you that they are worthy of your time and value you as a human being first and foremost and not just a piece of meat. Make sure that this man has proven himself as being worthy of you in his life all together. He must have a stable employment, his own apartment, house (not living with his mother, brother, sister, father, grandparent, nor rooming with a friend).
Start implementing these changes by putting the value and the time into yourself that you deserve to do. It is never too late to start over with your life. Refuse to be that man’s sex toy. Teach your daughters in the same manner. We must stop allowing these men to drag us down as women and allow this same demeaning behavior of men to be endured by our daughters and granddaughters, dragging us down and destroying our lives. It is our time now to step up and to be the powerful women that we are on all levels in life.
Stop putting down other women. We are all women and have been subject to the abusive, demeaning, humiliating tactics and treatments of unworthy men that we have allowed to come into our lives. It is my desire that all women will be strengthen on this year and work toward making that change in their life for the better for themselves, their daughters, and granddaughters.
It is time now that women let their voices be heard even louder to gain the equal rights that we deserve as another human being on this earth. No more stone age mentality directed toward women. If the men do not come correct, do not come at all.
If, we as women, are going to get what we want, we must demand it. No more being meek and a push over, submissive, downplaying our worth because we have been beaten down by the unworthy men that we have allowed to take up space in our lives. It is the men who have placed us against one another. Let us all get together and show the power we have in numbers and in our intellect.
Begin today, where ever you are, and develop your minds even more. Whatever it is that you would like to learn or learn more of, enroll into a class, go to the Library and get a free book on it and begin to take charge of your growth and development.
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